There's also no guarantee the relationship could work. Oh, she could easily leave him after she graduates and her interest change. And once she graduates, she'll be expected to work six days a week to help support her family, meaning she will have even less. Oh, that's hard. He might spend $50,000 trying to make the relationship work while she spends four years in college to be able to get a job where she'll earn $9 a day. $9. There's no chance of them living in an area of the Philippines where life will be more comfortable and enjoyable.