What started a something simple, fun and exciting has consumed his entire life with stress, out of control spending and uncertainty. He starts to realize several things. It's free for her to want the relationship, but it's costing him everything. Is it worth it? He has to give up his entire life and pay a small fortune to make everything work. He is going to travel 9,000 miles just to sit in a tiny hot and stuffy hotel room waiting on her to finish her college work. He has to give up his entire relationships with his friends and family and put his entire life on hold for this relationship. Yeah, but I think for me, I think like if you find that person and you feel that's the person it's worth the trouble